~Dilma Rousseff, President, Brazil.
Charles Onyango-Obbo via allAfrica.com:
“You need to appreciate two things about women”, he started. “First, women fear prison. A man might steal millions, calculate that he will be sent to prison and come out a year later to enjoy the money, ” he said.
“Women don’t think like that”, he said. “A man goes to prison and comfortably leaves his wife to look after the children. No woman will choose to go to prison and leave her husband to look after the children”, he pressed on. The reason is obvious.
Partly because of that fear, he argued, women are less corrupt than men.
Secondly, he said, “in traditional African societies, women don’t chase after men. It is still mostly men who chase women”.
So what has that got to do with anything? “Men feel they have to impress women, and many go to great lengths to do so”, he said.
“Because their desire to impress is often greater than their means, they end up stealing public funds” with which to buy nice cars, gifts, and so on.
He was not done. “Even where a woman chases a man, she does not have to buy so many expensive gifts to get him. So she is likely to get a man of her choice on her salary”, he said.
While the global development industry comes to grips with male-female dynamics using randomized control trials and other advanced techniques, one old man shares some powerful insights contained essentially in Africa’s oral history, recent as well as ancient. I wish I could read or hear about more of these kinds of conversations. Or have some myself.
